There is something peculiar about the way love settles inside Wasendra, as if his heart were a long hallway where echoes walk before words do. To Wasendra, love is not a sudden flame. It is the kind of warmth that gathers over time, like a cup of coffee cooling on the table, still carrying the memory of the hands that held it. His heart talks about nothing but the person it has chosen, even when his lips remain still. And in this vast world, there is a smaller world he builds inside himself, one shaped entirely around that person’s presence, where their name becomes a soft pulse running through the walls.Wasendra walks toward love like someone tracing the outline of a familiar path, one he has dreamed of many nights before. He prefers the slow burn, deep conversations at hours when the world grows faint, mornings with tea or coffee, the miracle of breathing next to someone and finding that this, too, is a form of devotion.
It is the way someone leaves their thoughts on the corner of the table.
The way laughter makes a plate feel warm.
The way silence grows tender when two people understand each other without speaking.If love is a home, then Wasendra keeps it with care. He lets memories sit in drawers without dusting them away. He allows someone to place pieces of themselves in forgotten corners, trusting the house to remember what the world forgets. He lets the walls learn the shape of another heartbeat and never questions why some echoes linger longer than others.He carries love the way one carries a fragile envelope, pressed between his palms, guarded from the rain, protected even when he is tired. And if the person he loves ever becomes lost within themselves, he will fold them back into his hands, letting them rest where everything is soft and safe .
To be loved by Wasendra is to be remembered. To be held in the palm of a heart that writes you into its walls. To be a world inside a man who already feels too much. And in that world, the meaning of love is simple, two hearts learning each other through silence, slow mornings, and the ache of wanting someone to stay, not through intensity, but through presence.
It feels like stepping into a universe made of tiny, intricate worlds I’ve collected over the years. I’m the kind of man who gets a little too emotional over The Hunger Games because I see pieces of myself in the fight, the hope, the grit. I carry Virginia Woolf’s words the way some people hold onto prayers, her art stays in me long after the pages close, shaping the way I see everything, including you.Loving me means knowing I’m drawn to beauty even if I don’t create it with my own hands. I don’t paint, I don’t sing, I don’t play instruments, but I feel art deeply. I remember the way it settles into my chest and shifts something in me. That’s the part of myself you’d notice first: I’m always moved, always thinking, always holding onto the things that touch me.Books are where I breathe.
Music is where I rest.
Museums are where I wander when the world gets too loud.And if you love me, you’ll see how naturally I lean into listening, not just to everything around me, but to you. There’s a devotion in the way I pay attention. I hear you even when you’re not speaking out loud. I carry your small details the same way I carry my favorite lines from novels. When I’m not tucked into your voice, I’m drifting through old songs, the kind you play on long car rides, the ones that feel like home even before the chorus hits. That’s the pulse you’ll feel if you love me. A man stitched together by stories, melodies, and all the little places where emotion likes to hide.That’s who I am. And loving me feels a lot like stepping into that world and finding a place to land inside it.
...Regulations
As a lover, Wasendra values things that feel simple and easy. He’s not into that rush, overwhelm, or turn dramatic relationship. That being said, slow burn is his pace. Moreover, he doesn’t deal with cheating prompt and toxic relationship, or anything that feels like emotional chaos.He can vibe with something playful and teasing or something affectionate, hence, he doesn’t mind with both lovey-dovey relationship or the love-hate one. But, what matters to him is that both of you feel comfortable being yourselves. Gender isn’t a factor for him, he’s part of the community and he is someone who believes in equal footing and treats you with that mindset.There are a few things he’s firm about, though…. Don’t bring gossip about people who aren’t part of his life, he’s not interested in that energy. Don’t use passive-aggressive behavior, he won’t entertain it. And he’s particular about language. Light curse is fine (E.g Anjir or Bjir), but harsh curses, whether toward him or toward yourself, aren’t acceptable to him.Another thing, Wasendra doesn’t entertain questions about where he’s staying or what he’s doing there. He asks that you refrain from asking anything related to his current whereabouts.
A Corner Made For Your Comfort.
Remember that Wasendra is queer, he swings both ways, and he’s comfortable with that part of himself. So, if someone can’t accept that, he won’t force a connection or take it personally. He just chooses to be with people who can meet him where he truly is.A Bond That Fits, No Matter The Shape.
Wasendra is open to many kinds of connections, whether it’s straight, gay, non-binary dynamics, or purely platonic. What matters to him is the bond between you, not the label you fall under.Before You Step Inside.
You can use any kind of account, ensure that you keep it on Public during the screening process and please make sure your account does not expose your real identity, where you live, or your body photos. For the time being, personal and alter accounts will not be accepted.Where Time Still Finds Its Way to You.
With Wasendra being in UTC+0 at the moment, which means his active hours won’t always line up perfectly with yours, please remember that he usually around before 2 PM – 5 AM in Indonesia time.A Gentle Beginning Together.
To first visitor, the meeting usually spans three days. After that, you’re welcome to stay at his place for up to five days and an extend can be discussed through Wasendra’s Manager.Where Sincerity Sets The Tone.
Anyone 22 and above can explore a romantic connection with him. For platonic relationships, age doesn’t matter, everyone is welcome.The little doors he leaves open for you.
Wasendra can be reached through X’s Chat (Previously Direct Message), Telegram, LINE, and Kakaotalk. However, anything that falls under public display of affection, posts, replies, interactions meant for others to see, will only be done on X.Love, Kept Soft and Subtle.
Wasendra isn’t into loud PDA. He keeps it subtle, subtweets, edits, and interactions. You are welcomed to discuss it further through Wasendra’s Manager.A Rhythm Made for Two.
Wasendra has his own routines and daily responsibilities, so his replies usually come within 5 to 60 minutes. Sometimes it may take longer, depending on what he has on his plate, but he’ll always try to let you know if he needs extra time away from his phone. One thing to keep in mind, Wasendra prefers to finish a conversation properly before moving on to the next. It helps him stay focused and give you a full uninterrupted reply. It’s best to wait for him to finish his message, and he’ll offer you the same courtesy.Where Your Emotions Remain Yours.
For clarity, he wishes to state that he isn’t accountable for any emotional reactions or attachments that may develop once the session ends.A Doorway To Ease, Handled With Care.
Wasendra doesn’t handle formal closings himself, and he won’t send his Padlet link directly through chat. His Manager takes care of those parts for him. If there’s anything you need to talk about, you’re always welcome to bring it up with Wasendra, or speak with his Manager if you’re more comfortable with that. Please note that cancellations and refunds aren’t offered, though rescheduling can be discussed if you need a different time.
| Safe For Work Public Display Affection | 7k Per Day |
| Not Safe For Work Public Display Affection | 10k Per Day |
| Not Safe For Work Plotting | 12k Per Day |
| Movie Date | 7k Per Movie (Wasendra only handles this through Hyperbeam. If you’d like to check if he’s available, you’re welcome to ask his Manager anytime) |
| Spotify Session | 3k Per Hour |
| Love Letter | 12k Per Hour |
Additional Note: Wasendra is open to anything related to food dates, reading dates, cigarette dates, alcohol dates, or any other kind of moment you’d like to share with him can always be discussed further.
...Closing
I’ve been thinking about you more than I should admit, letting the thought of you slip into every part of my day. It’s strange how something as simple as your presence can feel like gravity, familiar, pulling me back to a place that feels like home even before I reach it.Sometimes I wonder if you know what you do to me. How easily I could lose my mind over the way you’re… here, the way you kiss me, the way every little thing you do settles into my chest like it belongs there. You don’t even have to try, my heart reacts before my thoughts can catch up. It’s almost unfair, the ease with which you undo me.I won’t pretend I have everything figured out. But I do know the way you make me feel isn’t something I can brush off or treat lightly. It’s deeper than I expected, like something that keeps unfolding each time you come closer.And maybe that’s why I keep finding myself wanting the moments with you. The ordinary ones. The ones that look like nothing from the outside but feel like everything when it’s just us.I’ve been counting the days without realizing I’m doing it. And now that it’s close, I can feel the pull in my chest again.Can’t wait to see you at home.
